Thursday, May 29, 2008

Divisions at Duke?

I've heard that the Duke campus is really divided, is this true? How are the divisions made? Do a lot of girls end up losing friends if they don't join a sorority? I know statistically how many people are in Greek life, but honestly do girls feel left out if they're not in one?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I am not in a sorority--I joined a selective living group, and I love it. I have many girl friends in my selective living group, in sororities, and who are independant. But I've found that though some girls love their sororities, and make their best friends within their sororities, others just as easily find friends through classes, extracurricular activities, freshman dorms. I would say that the most important thing is to block with a good group of girls or join a selective living group--who you live near to is often the most important factor in friendships.
On the other hand, I have a couple friends who have absolutely HATED their sorority experience--too much drama, too many perfunctory, time wasting activities.
All in all, if you make an effort to get involved in something--whether it's a sorority, a club sport, or another type of Duke activity--you will not feel excluded. But if you wait for the friends to come to you, it might not happen. I think this is true not only for Duke life but for life in general.